Cupcakes has carried a small camera in her purse, snapping photos almost daily, since she was thirteen years old. Every extra dime was spent getting pictures developed until the magic of digital photos came into being! She has burned through several point and shoot Cannons along the way, both non digital, and digital, but now mostly uses her LG phone! Sadly she has never had the glory of owning a really high end camera! Although she would love one if it was dropped in her lap. Realistically she worries the size and weight might hinder usage when her phone is so readily available every moment!
Although their is a professional photographer in the family we have yet to see him ever snap a random photo during a family event! Unless they are setting up a photo shoot, which is rare, I'm sure the expensive photography equipment collects dust! Much like my good camera did years ago when I was too cheap to get photos developed!!
I'm surprised with all the cell phones that more photos aren't taken in that immediate family of thirty odd people! One of the sisters just recently started taking a few photos last year. Other than that no one bothers except Cupcake who is sure to group the siblings, or their families for quick photos! They may not be professional quality but they have yet to realize they will one day be invaluable!
Over the years my one friend recorded our goddess group events with photos. Always developing extras at her own expense to pass along to us! When digital cameras came into play she seemed to take less photos for a bit! So then I recorded a few events but photography is not my forte! Not like it is for Gypsy and Cupcake who have a deep passion for it! Writers write, artist create and photographers shoot photos whether they have expensive equipment or not! A candid photo is better than no photo at all!
Today as Christmas approaches I see all the family photos popping up on facebook with much oohing and awing over the happy family photos and not one credit to the photographer, Cupcake, who cared enough to pose the family for these treasured shots!
When my parents passed away we only had a couple of decent photos of them. Only one, not very tasteful one as a family of four! It was the first thing I looked for and the only thing I wanted yet there had been very few taken over the years!
No one thinks twice about poaching their family photo from someones facebook page.
However have you ever thought of acknowledging the photographer for their time and effort? Make sure to take loads of photos and be sure to get someone to take the whole family at once too! For those are the things you will treasure most when you lose a loved one! They will be the photos your children treasure after divorce too!
Wishing you all a Christmas filled with special moments! To those struggling my heart is with you! We all have challenging times and disappointments, but if we can capture a few simple moments of joy in the cracks of those dark times power to us we have won! And remember, TAKE LOTS OF PHOTOS!!
Although their is a professional photographer in the family we have yet to see him ever snap a random photo during a family event! Unless they are setting up a photo shoot, which is rare, I'm sure the expensive photography equipment collects dust! Much like my good camera did years ago when I was too cheap to get photos developed!!
I'm surprised with all the cell phones that more photos aren't taken in that immediate family of thirty odd people! One of the sisters just recently started taking a few photos last year. Other than that no one bothers except Cupcake who is sure to group the siblings, or their families for quick photos! They may not be professional quality but they have yet to realize they will one day be invaluable!
Over the years my one friend recorded our goddess group events with photos. Always developing extras at her own expense to pass along to us! When digital cameras came into play she seemed to take less photos for a bit! So then I recorded a few events but photography is not my forte! Not like it is for Gypsy and Cupcake who have a deep passion for it! Writers write, artist create and photographers shoot photos whether they have expensive equipment or not! A candid photo is better than no photo at all!
Today as Christmas approaches I see all the family photos popping up on facebook with much oohing and awing over the happy family photos and not one credit to the photographer, Cupcake, who cared enough to pose the family for these treasured shots!
When my parents passed away we only had a couple of decent photos of them. Only one, not very tasteful one as a family of four! It was the first thing I looked for and the only thing I wanted yet there had been very few taken over the years!
No one thinks twice about poaching their family photo from someones facebook page.
However have you ever thought of acknowledging the photographer for their time and effort? Make sure to take loads of photos and be sure to get someone to take the whole family at once too! For those are the things you will treasure most when you lose a loved one! They will be the photos your children treasure after divorce too!
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Wishing you all a Christmas filled with special moments! To those struggling my heart is with you! We all have challenging times and disappointments, but if we can capture a few simple moments of joy in the cracks of those dark times power to us we have won! And remember, TAKE LOTS OF PHOTOS!!
Do you take lots of family photos?
































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